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Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Why We Lie!!!!!!

Liar Liar Pant's on Fire
Why is it so hard to tell the truth? Is it because lying is so easy, or is it because people can't handle the truth ? We all lie, one way or another. It doesn't mean we are bad people, just that we can't be truthful about things. Some people have good reasons to lie and others don't, thats just how life is!

But what is a good Reason to lie?What is a bad reason to lie? Can anyone honestly answer that , well please tell me!
In "Why are you lying?" it mentions, there being four types of lies.
The first type is fear, it's almost always fear that triggers people to lie. When people are under pressure or are afraid they tend to lie rather then tell the truth.





Randomly the fairy godmother is a bunch of lies in this life no one really helps but we need to rely on ourselves to get any where in life!











The second type of lie is Habit. Some people's problem is that they are so use to telling lies that they can't control themselves. Every time they have a problem that is either to difficult of scary they just plain out solve it by lying.

Adam and Eve more like man and woman. people say that's how things are surposed to be .Well, yes that is a lie! It doesn't matter if it's Mary and Eve , or John and Adam. Who are we to tell people how to live? We can believe what ever we want and live by what we believe, but stay out of other peoples business!!!!!!!



The third type of lie is Modeling. Children look up to their parents to teach them right from wrong and most parents forget that. if children constantly hear or see their parents lying they will start. "Since Mommy lies ,Its ok for me to lie too!"







Ok our final type of lie is Overprediction. Children predict the outcome of their problem and decided to lie because that way they wont be in trouble. This has to do with the parents reactions to their kids, if they didn't over do somethings kids wouldn't have to turn to lying as an escape. We make our children out of wack because our parenting is disastrous.And I hate those parents that think hitting or shall we say "Abusing" their kids makes them stay in line.Dont fall into that lie, hitting your kids doesn't help it only mess's up their head which would cause Overprediction!!!!

2 comments:

chris peters said...

its funny because i like reading some of the things you say bc its true and it also makes you question how you are (like how i am) but its true lying is just how the world works and its too bad it has to be that way btw i like the look xD

chris J said...

one word "wow"